"Secret Struggles"

So many times our private struggles
Are brought into the light
No matter how we kick and scream
No matter how we fight
We wonder why they've been made know
Why we can't keep them to ourself
Why do others need to know
Why are they displayed upon the shelf
Is it to embarrass us
To make us feel ashamed
Who's responsible for this mess
Who is the one to blame
God brings them out into the light
So healing may occur
He does it all for our own good
Of this we can be sure
So don't resent His discipline
Embrace it and accept
That for our healing and our growth
These secrets can not be kept